Kate Peers’ Parenting Story
How much can the right support make a difference to children with ADHD - and their parents?
In this episode of the All Aboard ADHD podcast, Claire is joined by Kate Peers - mum of 3 boys and owner of Department Store for the Mind, an online shop that allows you to explore the world inside your head. Kate is also a Youth Mental Health First Aid England Trainer. In this episode Kate shares some wonderful examples of the difference the right help and support can make to children with ADHD - and their parents.
Claire reached out to Kate in February 2019 via DM after reading a blog that Kate had written for Molly Gunn (aka Selfish Mother), at a time when she was feeling unbelievably alone following her son’s diagnosis. Kate's blog post was the very first time Claire had felt seen or understood, and emphasises the importance of parents connecting with each other to support each other on their ADHD journey.
Kate shares her story raising three boys, including her middle son diagnosed with ADHD and ASD. She describes some of the early signs of ADHD in her middle son, such as difficulty waiting and high energy levels. Following a challenging wait going through the process with the NHS, Kate shares the relief and validation she felt upon receiving her son's diagnosis.
They go on to discuss some of the challenges of transitioning from primary to secondary school. Including a special story Kate tells about a Teaching Assistant who supported her son, highlighting the profound impact that supportive and trusted adults can have on a child’s life.
Claire and Kate reflect on the importance of advocacy and the role of educating yourself about ADHD as much as possible, especially on how differently it can present, for example in girls versus boys.
They also share their experiences of connecting with other parents on social media and finding hope in their stories, highlighting the importance of building a supportive ADHD community.
This episode is an honest, inspiring and uplifting story of connection and support - a must-listen for parents, wherever they are on their ADHD journey.